Me and my girlfriends have been talking and we have noticed that a lot of women blame the other woman instead of their man. The way I see it is, no one can break your home except the person you build it with. You should expect love, loyalty and respect from your partner. If they decide to cheat on you, it is 100% their fault. They are the one that has made a commitment to you. And they should solely be responsible for breaking that committment. Unless the other woman is close to you, in that case, they are equally to blame.
When woman point the finger at the other woman, they have taken the responsibility away from their man. I hear woman saying ”she should respect the fact that he is in a relationship”, ”No” he should respect the fact that ”he” is in a relationship.
He should not cross the line, he should not act inappropriately. A women can be throwing themselves at him and he should decline and think about his relationship. I am tired of woman fighting each other and aiming their hurt and pain at the other woman.
Woman need to expect more from their relationships. They need a relationship that is based on love, loyalty, trust, support and respect. And if your not getting that, you need to know your self-worth and walk away. Always keep in mind that real love does not hurt, it does not cause pain and betrayal. Real love is caring, loyal, respectful and brings joy and happiness.
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