why do women always blame the other women?

Me and my girlfriends have been talking and we have noticed that a lot of women blame the other woman instead of their man. The way I see it is, no one can break your home except the person you build it with. You should expect love, loyalty and respect from your partner. If they decide to cheat on you, it is 100% their fault. They are the one that has made a commitment to you. And they should solely be responsible for breaking that committment. Unless the other woman is close to you, in that case, they are equally to blame.

When woman point the finger at the other woman, they have taken the responsibility away from their man. I hear woman saying ”she should respect the fact that he is in a relationship”, ”No” he should respect the fact that ”he” is in a relationship.

He should not cross the line, he should not act inappropriately. A women can be throwing themselves at him and he should decline and think about his relationship. I am tired of woman fighting each other and aiming their hurt and pain at the other woman.

Woman need to expect more from their relationships. They need a relationship that is based on love, loyalty, trust, support and respect. And if your not getting that, you need to know your self-worth and walk away. Always keep in mind that real love does not hurt, it does not cause pain and betrayal. Real love is caring, loyal, respectful and brings joy and happiness.

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15 comments

    • I think they should talk about the issue instead of going out to cheat. It is inevitable that every relationship will face obstacles and difficulties. However those difficulties should be addressed. Cheating will only create more problems in the relationship.

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      • Absolutely right. U were straight to the point. I believe in dialogue. Cheating cant solve the problem but rather it will more problem. But from my own experience, sometimes, some women don’t like dialogue, once they are angry, the whole world will know that. U give them time to calm their nerves so that u talk over the issue, it becomes a problem. hahahahaha. I strongly believe in the power of dialogue in any relationship. Dialogue is the key to building an effective relationship inside and outside marriage.

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  1. “Woman need to expect more from their relationships. They need a relationship that is based on love, loyalty, trust, support and respect. And if your not getting that, you need to know your self-worth and walk away. Always keep in mind that real love does not hurt, it does not cause pain and betrayal. Real love is caring, loyal, respectful and brings joy and happiness.” I love this paragraph. It should be put in a picture frame, hung on a wall, looked at everyday and thought about.

    I’m a man. My wife insisted on more from a relationship to start with. She knows her self-worth and made it known early on that if she doesn’t get what she wants out of a relationship she will walk away. And she really means it.

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  2. Blaming the other woman is easier then acknowledging the wrong that the man has committed. We live in a society that teaches women to take back cheaters and use the other women as a scapegoat to excuse a man who cheats.

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  3. Very true. There are two main reasons for relations breaking down. One is that a partner has changed to the extent of not being the person originally loved. If a woman knows this is not the case with herself, then the other reason applies. The partner is an unfaithful rotter not worth carrying on with. Letting the disgust at his behaviour overtake any lingering feelings for him is the best way to go. It is a question of maintaining and building self-esteem.

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